On serious warnings from some people i temporarily stop the techie topics.I was searching for some topic to blog about......srsly was short of topics to blog about/.......So finally i peeped into a mind of normal frustrated iitian's brain. So i blog this topic as a frusssst iitian , not as Surya.:D
1.2..3......shoot..!!
Eversince i've joined IIT , things were not like the way in which i visualized when I was a 17 year +2 studying boy.Things were like second side of a coin.
My first year was sacrificed to the psychic professors who expected us to perform extraordinarily well in their utterly unimportant subjects.{ED standing first in this :D }
Leaving Acads apart,I was always interested in making friends,(especially ones from opposite sex owing to my adrenaline ).Introvert by nature, I could manage to grab a corner seat which had the best view of all the girls in my section .As usually rated them on my -hottie-of-the-class list. (Dont ask me the ranks now :D ). I found out grp of boys in the same section with the same desperation and obviously dey turned out to be friends for life.
Well ,putting beside this despo of mine, I am obsessed with some of these strange thoughts recently and these are worth thinking even. :)
Imagine after 10 years u get into a MNC or own entrepreneurship or probably get into some irrelevant job which you'd never dreamt of.
U are waiting for a flight say mumbai, and u get to know that u'r flight has been delayed for say 3 hours. Frustated with the very thought of waiting for 3 hours U collapse into a chair cursing u'r boss for choosing u for this appointment which is completely irrelevant to u .U run into some aircanteen asking for a Diet coke( Beileve me u'll turn health concious then owing to u'r long peep-into-compu wrking hours ).U give the entire terminal a glimse and giigle at the sentimental mother-son scenes,or Wife-husband emotions etc.etc. The sight of the laptops where the newly wed couple were amusingly looking into reminds you of the draft in your inbox tht needs to be forwarded.U curse yourself gor your posponing attitude and open your lappy and login to the acnt. U give a relief sigh after sending it and just open your flooded inbox.
Suddently u hear a 2 year baby crying beside u.U give a look at the parents thinking to give them a mini lecture on nursing the child.But waht u see there is a bald headed husbad and a I-know-u-very-well kind of a similar face Wife. U quit u'r lecture idea and turn back to u'r inbox.Still thinking of the blue saree lady whom u just saw ..and try googling her image in your mind.was she my school frnd..?no way all my schl frnds were see-in-the-morning and forget-in-the-evening types....My intermediate?....My engineering....ya..but is it her....U look back once again..yes it's her.....Alekhya..(any resemblance is purely coincidence :D )
You : Is it you .....Alekhya..ryt?(Her husband gives a who-the-fcuk-is talking-with-my-wife look)
Alekhya: Ya .....u r..??? (with a confused look...)
You : It's me .Bla-Bla .
Alekhya: Excuse me??(continuing the same look....god ..stop that)
You : IIT ECE rol no. XXXXXXX ..(thinking atleast this shud make her remember)
Alekhya :Oh! yeah Hi! This is my husband,Mr.________________ (Some Tom,Dick and Harry..You just reel back to your days in college and compare yourself with this man..
Yea,you are way many times better than him;you and ally would make an ideal match..Yea, you were a little lean back then but It's always better than being bald like allyy's_____________)
Husband: Hi..I am ___________and i work at ____________company(completely unnecessary for me)
You: Oh i see. i work at __________company as a ___________ (u add a curse to the list for u'r boss )
And then this discussion continues. U'll be eager to talk with Ally but u end up talking with her husband about some nonsense coffee,politician flights climate etc. Hmm....U couldn't talk with her in a span of 4 years..and now u get a chance of winding up it in last 4 mins. Wat wud u do ...ntng. Just caress her baby for 2-3 mins. and speak of some common frnds and then u have your announcement of last call of the flight.U just say good-bye and leave., So all u had is a Hi and a Bye in the proper types.
Uhhh...that was a lenghty senti drama...(took 15 mins to type it ). Srsly,u were together for 4 golden youthful years of your life and after 10 years it was the same Hi-Bye drama. If the old frnd happened to be a boy, you both could afford to miss the flights and sit by for a beer. No i dont insist girls to drink..but...
I srsly cant imagine a friend of mine to be a girl like Alekhya,who studied with me for 4 long years running into same face daily and after ten years letting her Husband on me...NO...I wanted to talk with my long forgotten frnd but was finally making a new friend of her husband forgetting my long-time-no-see friend.
Through my deepest observations for 2 and a half years i arrived at following conclusions for girls act-ingnorant attitude towards boys.
1.2..3......shoot..!!
Eversince i've joined IIT , things were not like the way in which i visualized when I was a 17 year +2 studying boy.Things were like second side of a coin.
My first year was sacrificed to the psychic professors who expected us to perform extraordinarily well in their utterly unimportant subjects.{ED standing first in this :D }
Leaving Acads apart,I was always interested in making friends,(especially ones from opposite sex owing to my adrenaline ).Introvert by nature, I could manage to grab a corner seat which had the best view of all the girls in my section .As usually rated them on my -hottie-of-the-class list. (Dont ask me the ranks now :D ). I found out grp of boys in the same section with the same desperation and obviously dey turned out to be friends for life.
Well ,putting beside this despo of mine, I am obsessed with some of these strange thoughts recently and these are worth thinking even. :)
Imagine after 10 years u get into a MNC or own entrepreneurship or probably get into some irrelevant job which you'd never dreamt of.
U are waiting for a flight say mumbai, and u get to know that u'r flight has been delayed for say 3 hours. Frustated with the very thought of waiting for 3 hours U collapse into a chair cursing u'r boss for choosing u for this appointment which is completely irrelevant to u .U run into some aircanteen asking for a Diet coke( Beileve me u'll turn health concious then owing to u'r long peep-into-compu wrking hours ).U give the entire terminal a glimse and giigle at the sentimental mother-son scenes,or Wife-husband emotions etc.etc. The sight of the laptops where the newly wed couple were amusingly looking into reminds you of the draft in your inbox tht needs to be forwarded.U curse yourself gor your posponing attitude and open your lappy and login to the acnt. U give a relief sigh after sending it and just open your flooded inbox.
Suddently u hear a 2 year baby crying beside u.U give a look at the parents thinking to give them a mini lecture on nursing the child.But waht u see there is a bald headed husbad and a I-know-u-very-well kind of a similar face Wife. U quit u'r lecture idea and turn back to u'r inbox.Still thinking of the blue saree lady whom u just saw ..and try googling her image in your mind.was she my school frnd..?no way all my schl frnds were see-in-the-morning and forget-in-the-evening types....My intermediate?....My engineering....ya..but is it her....U look back once again..yes it's her.....Alekhya..(any resemblance is purely coincidence :D )
You : Is it you .....Alekhya..ryt?(Her husband gives a who-the-fcuk-is talking-with-my-wife look)
Alekhya: Ya .....u r..??? (with a confused look...)
You : It's me .Bla-Bla .
Alekhya: Excuse me??(continuing the same look....god ..stop that)
You : IIT ECE rol no. XXXXXXX ..(thinking atleast this shud make her remember)
Alekhya :Oh! yeah Hi! This is my husband,Mr.________________ (Some Tom,Dick and Harry..You just reel back to your days in college and compare yourself with this man..
Yea,you are way many times better than him;you and ally would make an ideal match..Yea, you were a little lean back then but It's always better than being bald like allyy's_____________)
Husband: Hi..I am ___________and i work at ____________company(completely unnecessary for me)
You: Oh i see. i work at __________company as a ___________ (u add a curse to the list for u'r boss )
And then this discussion continues. U'll be eager to talk with Ally but u end up talking with her husband about some nonsense coffee,politician flights climate etc. Hmm....U couldn't talk with her in a span of 4 years..and now u get a chance of winding up it in last 4 mins. Wat wud u do ...ntng. Just caress her baby for 2-3 mins. and speak of some common frnds and then u have your announcement of last call of the flight.U just say good-bye and leave., So all u had is a Hi and a Bye in the proper types.
Uhhh...that was a lenghty senti drama...(took 15 mins to type it ). Srsly,u were together for 4 golden youthful years of your life and after 10 years it was the same Hi-Bye drama. If the old frnd happened to be a boy, you both could afford to miss the flights and sit by for a beer. No i dont insist girls to drink..but...
I srsly cant imagine a friend of mine to be a girl like Alekhya,who studied with me for 4 long years running into same face daily and after ten years letting her Husband on me...NO...I wanted to talk with my long forgotten frnd but was finally making a new friend of her husband forgetting my long-time-no-see friend.
Through my deepest observations for 2 and a half years i arrived at following conclusions for girls act-ingnorant attitude towards boys.
- The long back image of dont-poke-me nature of girls
- The typical girlish egos that come into play especially in engineering.
- The pre-commitment of the girl with a boy outside the class
- Their confinement to make friendship with a-good-natured-boy ....and dey dont even care searching for one.
- Happy-Days muvi..... :) ...one thing that dey showed in the muvi is that two opposite sexes can have nothing except for senseless infatuationsbetween them. Dont blame them ....I am a fan of tht muvi even.
- Vitamin M(Money).....This is just at a very-very few instances.
So conclusion.......ntng...just.... I am bored....
Hope I bored u a lot with this post ..but u know what..it's on a purpose... :)
